I Second That Emotion

I Second That Emotion

You know all that woowoo stuff about how thought becomes things? Well, here’s a strange and interesting thing. Theoretical physicists are finding out that consciousness is a state of matter. Quantifiable. Like gases, or liquids, or solids. What do you think about them apples.

We’ve been talking here for ages about how emotions are the physical manifestations of thought. That each thought has a corresponding emotion attached, and that you string enough together and you get feelings. Well, it looks like thought may already be a thing.

We know we have a conscious mind, and an unconscious mind. We know that when we are feeling crazy, or overwhelmed, it’s often because we have so much unconscious stuff swirling around, or maybe just one big thing, that’s trying to be known.

Our unconscious thoughts, like our conscious thoughts, also make emotions. Emotions make feelings, and I gotta say, feelings are not my strong suit. I’ve had to work on them, identifying them, experiencing them.

Here’s the way it all plays out.

I have a thought, let’s say a “no” thought, like, “I don’t like this.” That thought produces an emotion; anger or fear or disgust. I don’t notice it, and the thought loops, and the emotion gets bigger turning into a feeling, that is, an emotion and thought loop big enough that I can notice. I ignore it, and it will get bigger. If I keep pushing it down, that feeling, it will manifest in my physical body. Lots of folks have mapped symptoms as feelings already. Each of us has our own body, our own feelings and our own maps, on the other hand, we share a lot.

Why do I trust my body? How can I know what my body is telling me? What makes me understand my own body’s language?

We have sayings that lets us know we have stuff in common. We talk about carrying the weight of the world on our shoulders, and when we feel over-burdened, it’s often our shoulders that ache. Our neck aches, until we identify the “pain in the neck” we are having feelings about. Or the” pain in the ass”, which may show up as hemorrhoids. Seriously. Anger can hole up in the liver, bitterness and resentments in the gallbladder, being pissed off in the bladder, fear in the kidneys, and so on.

Learning to identify these is really useful. I know it’s a stretch for a lot of us, this whole concept. It took me a while to get it, but if I can warm up my hands just by thinking “warm hands,” well....And, just for the record, I learned that skill at the Mayo Clinic in 1976.

Issues around feeling supported can show up in the back: “Do you have my back?” Sensing a betrayal of sorts can “get our back up.” Knees often have to do with ego and self-worth, menial tasks being beneath us, for example, and hips can be letting us know we need some self-celebration. When we have a physical topic, identifying the feelings and emotions that our body is trying to communicate can be very healing. Emotions are like a road map, telling us where we are, what’s going on, and when we ignore them, they will amplify their message.

How have I changed from discounting my emotions and feelings to taking their messages to heart?

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